tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52089350808919819012011-10-07T22:11:48.837+01:00I am a man with a very submissive sexual nature. In other areas of life I am actually pretty assertive even dominant. Over the years I have written stories about this side of my life and have decided to start a blog to share them. The works are works of fiction with names and places changed to protect people and although the narratives may not have happened exactly as in a story all elements of the stories are based on real happenings.Submissive Guyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08704846425350838032noreply@blogger.comBlogger201100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208935080891981901.post-23318947858984026182010-08-27T13:42:00.000+01:002010-08-27T13:42:10.171+01:00

I am not sure that is fits into any category of previous post but I thought I would share this. I have never really considered my sexuality in the sense of am I straight, gay or bisexual, I just am what I am. I am a submissive man who gains sexual satisfaction from pleasing a beautiful wife. It at times that means interacting sexually with a man so be it. Of course we all do have things in our

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Another in the series of women who say "dominant" to me although the picture is not from anywhere officially associated with BDSM. If I were to meet this lady, I think I might go weak at the knees from the dominant aura coming off her. What do you think?

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I have been away from the online world for a little while due to home and work commitments but it does not mean I have gone back to being vanilla. In fact if anything just the opposite: my wife has been running every and managing every aspect of my life apart from work. It is one of the wonders of this lifestyle that new freedoms come from submitting. With nothing to worry about elsewhere I can

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The second in my series of pictures of ladies with that dominant air. I just adore this image as it seems from another age when sexuality was not so overt, yet still it smoulders there beneath the elegance. The look on her face is so confident I just know she would be in charge of any relationship and the men in her life would thank her for that. So what do you think?

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This is going to be the first in an occasional series of picture of ladies who are not official posed as a dominatrix somehow seem to me to give off an aura of being in charge. I would love to know others views on them – whether they agree with me or not. There is something about the look on the face of this lady that just seems so confident and knowing. She is posed in a way that is both

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Over the weekend my wife and I had quite a lot of interesting chats but one that I thought I would share was the issue of body and pubic hair on men and women. Now I know for a submissive the answer is always “whatever she wants” but I would be interesting in knowing what other submissives prefer for themselves and their Goddesses. I would also be interested to know what any Dominant ladies

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Those who have read the stories on here will know that in a few of them I have been “taken” by my wife and goddess with a strap-on. You will also know that it is not something I have ever really looked forward to although of course I have accepted it as was my due. This weekend is a long one with a public holiday in England and for once we do not have a lot of family commitments. My wife

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  I find smoking a turn off so why do I find this picture so erotic? I showed it to my wife (a totally anti-smoker) and she threaten to take it up as punishment for even thinking. I know she’s joking but par of me would just kneel in front of her if I saw her like that.   Odd how the mind works sometimes.

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Over the last week or so I have had quite a lot of people showing interest in this blog and stories on it. It is pretty obvious that a lot of people have assumed that as many of the stories feature me taking a traditionally female role and/or being dressed in feminine attire that this is my primary fetish. Also other people have leaped a little further and assumed that as my wife takes the lead

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Regular readers of this rather irregular blog will know by now that I am the submissive one in our marriage and that my wife has over the years used a number of different techniques to assert her control over my body and mind. Recently she decided to undergo a small make over in her own appearance and she decided that this was also an opportunity to have some fun with her control of me and

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The physical need is so intense now it permeates my every other thought. Last night my dreams were erotic and intense. One brought me so near I almost felt myself cumming but I woke just in time. My hand wanted, needed to finish the work the dream had started but my wife was laying asleep next door and somehow I resisted the temptation. Only fitful sleep for the rest of the night as my ball ached

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It’s been way too long since my last post and this one will only be short but I hope the first of a few describing my current experiences. 18 days ago my wife decided to put me on what she called a regime of extreme orgasm control. Since I submitted to her she has always decided when I may climax but now she has informed me there will be an extended period when I am not allowed to climax. So

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“Tonight you are my plaything” was all the email from my wife had said. As always my stomach flipped in anticipation when I read it. Wondering what was in store for me I drove home with a familiar mix of arousal and worry about exactly what she had planned. Walking in I saw her standing to greet me. She was dressed in a man’s suit, shirt and tie with her hair pulled up tightly behind her head

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Readers of other posts on here will know I am submissive and may have picked up a bit on a couple of my other fetishes that interplay with it. I am convinced that early experiences shape our sexual tastes in early life and my stories “Dressing up for Aunty”, “Strip Poker” and “Striptease” all cover formative experiences. This describes how other tastes were influenced. The first is one I think

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Readers of the other stories in this blog will have picked up by now I suspect that cross dressing (often in some sort of “forced” way) is quite a big part of my submissive side. The story “Dressing up for Auntie” describes the events that really started to unlock these feelings and “Strip Poker” describes another formative experience that happened a year or two later that really reinforced the

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My wife and I like to entertain a lot and are often hosts to dinner parties. This happened a few weeks ago when a couple we know quite well came around. They are both old university friends of ours and know a little of my wife and I's life style. He is a lecturer at a local university and until recently she had been a stay at home mother but now the kids have flown the nest. To help with the

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This story is a little different from the others. It was written for a friend of my wife and is based on her fantasy. If you read the story "Her Model" she was one of the ladies present there and I have also had the privilege of performing for her on another occasion too but not like the events in this story. I was very flattered that when she read it she said it was one of the sexiest things she

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Come on admit it we all played strip poker when young to get a look at the girls....I think this must have happened when I was about 12 as I remember it being quite soon after I first started "playing with myself" as I called it then. For years my mother had been a friend with a woman who lived up our street and I had known her and her two daughters for a long time. My mother's friend kept a

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This is a true story. While not exactly about my submissive side I think it was these events that triggered something allowing my more feminine sexual side to come to the fore.These events happened back in 1969 a few weeks before Christmas. I was about 10 at the time. You can tell they had a big effect on me as I remember the date so well. My parents were going off to my father's company 'do' as

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My wife and I are in our early 40s and have been living a femdom lifestyle for over 10 years. It started when she found my secret collection of pornography nearly all of which dealt with women dominating men. The images ranged from the mild to the quite extreme and her first reaction was one of shock. We talked about things for a while and as she is of a curious and understanding nature she

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